Anonymous said: I used to date this guy but then we broke up and become best friends. We used to talk literally everyday but ever since he's started going out with another girl he hasn't talked to me since.
Him being your ex does add a slight difficulty to the situation, but still, friends shouldn’t ditch friends. I’ve become well accustomed to being put on the back-burner for a relationship, and they might be up each others butts right now but it’ll all balance out eventually. New relationships can get pretty annoying when you’re not the one in it. They’re in their honeymoon stage and with each other constantly. He’ll realize he’s neglected the other parts of his life, and he’ll make time for you. If you’d like to go the pro-active route, make plans to hang out with the both of them. Let his girlfriend know that you aren’t a threat to the relationship but that you also play an important role in his life. If he doesn’t stop neglecting y’alls friendship, my advice is forget about him. Real friendships should always last through relationships. He can’t ditch when he’s walking on sunshine and then come crawling back on a bad day. You can’t sit around and wait for him because you’re entitled to better, and if he doesn’t get the memo then you should tell him.
Best of Luck.